“There are not bad teams, but bad leaders”
This applies to group and also a single person.
In life your are both the team and the leader.
As a leader you must take 100% responsibility for your life.
Anything that happens is no one else’s fault but yours.
The leader must plan and think big picture.
You are also the team that puts these plans into action.
The one that must carry the commands day in and day out.
That must be willing to be creative and flexible carrying them out.
Do anything to succeed.
As V.S Ramachandran has taught us, there are multiple voices in your brain.
Each one with different motivations.
Organize them all towards a common mission and see what happens.