Strategy: Coherence

No other person may be watching you.
But you are still there.
At any moment you are acting and viewing yourself.
You judge yourself and your character like you view others.
If you see yourself act weak and immoral, you will see yourself like that.
If the way you view yourself and the way you act have a conflict, you will never be at peace.

The goal is alignment. 
Act strong to feel strong.